I have dated women of all ages.
I’ve had relationships with women 15 years younger.
I’ve had relationships with women 3 years younger.
I’ve had relationships with women my own age.
And I can tell you, there’s a big difference at times.
Sometimes when you’re dating a younger woman, you almost feel like it’s your child.
I’m not one of those creepy men that date women 30 years younger than then and come up with, “she’s really mature for her age.”
I love that.
She’s not mature for her fucking age. That’s your penis talking, dude.
It’s basically your penis going, “Hey man, we really like to have sex with this girl. Her body is really amazing. She’s really mature for her age.”
She might be 26. You’re 56 years old, and you know what? She might act like a 27 year-old, but she doesn’t like a 56 year-old, and the fact of the matter is that if you think she’s mature for her age and you can relate with her on every level, it means that you are immature for your age.
Boom.
That’s where it comes from.
You’re immature for your age. Think about that.
I truly believe that there are times when you’re going to date younger women that you’re going to feel like you’re talking to your daughter or somebody that definitely has not lived through what you have lived through.
There’s nothing wrong with that.
It comes with the territory.
It’s part of the territory, it’s the truth.
If you don’t allow the penis to do the talking, then you allow your mind and brain to do the talking, you’ll actually see somebody who may not be the equal that you think they are.
When it comes down to sex, the mind plays so many tricks.
Show a man a pair of tits like he’s never seen them before, and his mind becomes mush.
Show a man a pussy shot that women will send men, naked photos and other things and man’s mind becomes mush.
It clouds the judgment.
Sex always clouds the judgment.
He’ll overlook things.
But a real, true relationship is a series of ups and downs, growth and everything else and putting up with somebody’s immaturity at times and really being acknowledging, hey, they are younger than me.
The things they’re going through are things that I went through at their age.
I can support them even if at times it might drive me nuts, but I don’t want to bring them up to my level, because they’re not going to be on my level at that level.
That’s the truth.
Plain and simple.
How do you feel about that, all of you older men that have come up with every reason to date younger women (except for really what it truly is, an egotistical, physical, sexual thing)?
Sure, she might bring stuff to the table that will actually enhance your life, but in reality she hasn’t gone through the emotional experiences you’ve gone through.
She hasn’t gone through the life experiences that you’ve gone through, so she’s not exactly going to be able to help you through some of the things you may need.
That’s what you need to look at.
If you could put up with being her guardian at times, then it’s okay, but please don’t come to me and tell me that you’re 30 years older than somebody and they’re mature for their age.
My answer is going to be, if you think she’s as mature as you, the reality is that you are actually as immature as her.